Aussie is the first woman since Staci and I broke up last September with whom I've been intimate more than once (not counting Sam since she and I had been together four times in 2013). This unfortunate truth does bother me a little, and with my paradigm shift of taking a long-term approach to things in the beginning stages, I am cautious not to bolt from this new relationship with Aussie, at least until it becomes abundantly clear that others are more desirable.
Our date begins in about four hours at an upscale eatery about 10 minutes from her home, where we'll have some laughs and maybe some wine, and then we'll head to a mid-priced hotel about 10 minutes from the restaurant. With one of her roommates home we can't get together in her bedroom today.
IN OTHER NEWS:
Chic texted me Tuesday night that one of her fortes is dirty texting, but since then she appears to be too busy to show me anything like that, despite my encouragement. At the moment I'm cooling a bit on her, but she's still at the top of the backup list.
Sweden and I texted the other day and I found out that it's only a ten-minute drive from my office to her apartment... where she lives alone! Sweden is easily more attractive than Aussie and Chic, and both of them have roommates. You might have gathered by now how much I value having someone who is geographically close. It's why I ended things with Staci, and Space Cadet, and wouldn't continue with College. It is a major plus in Sweden's favor that she lives alone and so close to my office. If the chemistry is there, and we'll get a decent idea of that next week, she'll jump to the front of the line and may even replace Aussie.
Sasha and I have been chatting almost non-stop since we first exchanged numbers. She is one fascinating girl. At 25, she's a little out of my age range, but she's so mature and so grounded that her age is completely irrelevant to me. She has had a very difficult upbringing. Raised in the foster care system, she got pregnant at 18 and married the father, who came from a very wealthy family. The marriage did not last and she quickly got divorced, and made the excruciatingly difficult decision to let her child be raised exclusively by her ex-husband, whose family could provide for the child. She hasn't seen the kid in three years. "I've completely shut off that part of my brain. At this point." As a father of two beautiful children, my heart absolutely hurts for her. This affected her so deeply that she said she couldn't wait till she turned 30 so she could have her tubes tied and never have any children. As a Sugar Daddy hearing this story, I'd normally run so fast in the other direction you'd see nothing but the dust in my wake, but she is rebuilding her life to such an inspiring degree that I can't help but respect and admire her. She works in the legal field, and although she doesn't have a law degree, she works for a prominent independent lawyer and does everything he does "except talk to judges." She is passionate about and loves what she is doing, and has serious ambitions for her career once she can get out of debt. She'll go to law school and get her degree, pass the bar and be able to hang her own shingle. With her street smarts and previous experience, she's going to be a formidable litigator. I want to meet her badly, but with her work schedule and the fact that she's got a roommate, I'm not sure there's much of a chance. I joked with her that, "I know you don't need it, but you've now activated my rescuing reflex."
Min left today for a wedding in Mexico. We'll talk when she returns, but I'm sort of not into her.
Gemini and I are still chatting, but she's even younger than Sasha so I'm not all that excited to deal with I'm sensing is a bit of immaturity.
Holly and I texted last night and yesterday morning. Despite the fact that she's gorgeous, intelligent, and mature, I'm cooling on her because I actually find her a little too reserved. My flirtation attempts were met with smiles but no reciprocation to speak of. Maybe that's a sign of her maturity, which, at the end of the day, I desire in a woman, but if this is to be fun for me, there has to be a little more playfulness. Perhaps if we're intimate her playful side will come out, but for now I'm afraid she is probably down near the bottom of the list.
Finally, I just presented Violet with my terms and haven't yet heard back. I'm guessing that she'll say no, which would be fine. Despite her lovely face, she appears not to have the ideal body that I like.
Here's how they all stack up right now:
- Aussie -- beautiful, sexy, and flexible schedule, but lives with roommates and 30 minutes from work.
- Sasha -- sexy, strong, but lives with roommate and likely has inflexible work schedule
- Chic -- lovely, sweet, intelligent, but with inflexible schedule and lives with roommates
- Sweden -- gorgeous, lives alone, and flexible schedule, but unknown compatibility
- Sam -- gorgeous, sexy, fun, but unpredictable schedule and has roommates
- Gemini -- intelligent and sexy, but too young and has roommates
- Holly -- strong, beautiful, spiritual, and flexible schedule, but has roommates and appears reserved
- Min -- sexually open and lives alone, but is less attractive and lives more than 30 minutes from work
- Violet -- not enough to know much of anything beyond the physical.
That's a lot of choices, eh?